Friday, March 9, 2012

Re: (Attock VU Group) •••• Top 10 excuses by women who don’t wear the Hijab •••••

Dear Munnazah sis!

The Noble Qur'an ........ 

Surah Al-Ahzaab, Verse #59 
'O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks ("Jalabib") veils all over their bodies (screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way Tafseer Al-Qurtabi) that is most convenient that they should be known (as such) and not molested: and Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful."

Surah An-Nur, Verses #30 and #31 
'And Say to the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts)and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, head cover, apron), and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms) 

 

From the Hadith..... 

Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 6, Book 60, Hadith # 282 
Narrated Safiya bint Shaiba (Radhiallaahu Ánha)  "Aisha (Radhiallaahu Ánha) used to say: "When (the Verse): "They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms," was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their faces with the cut pieces.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 1, Book 8, Hadith # 368 
Narrated 'Aisha (Radhiallaahu Ánha) Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) used to offer the Fajr prayer and some believing women covered with their veiling sheets used to attend the Fajr prayer with him and then they would return to their homes unrecognized.  Shaikh Ibn Uthaimin in tafseer of this hadith explains "This hadith makes it clear that the Islamic dress is concealing of the entire body as explained in this hadith.  Only with the complete cover including the face and hands can a woman not be recognized.  This was the understanding and practice of the Sahaba and they were the best of group, the noblest in the sight of Allah (swt) with the most complete Imaan and noblest of characters.  so if the practice of the women of the sahaba was to wear the complete veil then how can we deviate from their path? 


On Fri, Mar 9, 2012 at 3:40 AM, bc090200684 Munazzah Mehak Anjum <bc090200684@vu.edu.pk> wrote:
guyz tell me one thing,,,, i need little info on this topic... Naqab ki kia ehmiyut hai??... m not asking about Hijab or abaya here... m specifically asking for fully covering face... 

On 9 March 2012 01:34, Shahzad Sadiq <lushahz@gmail.com> wrote:
MashaALLAH............ALLAH Pak aap ko mazeed barkat day.........Ameen

JazakALLAH khair Sister...........

On Thu, Mar 8, 2012 at 3:29 PM, mc100206625 Mahreen Younas <mc100206625@vu.edu.pk> wrote:
I want to share something about HIJAAB. i m doing job as Program manger in University . And u cant imagine every one do appreciate me and every resource person gives respect me. And i do attend all dinner lunch trip with mine abbya . Nobody dislike me .
Actully confidence is too much important for wearing gown. My dear all sisters plz be confident , be muslims  and ALHAMDLILHA my designation is too much high. Shaitan appear and will stop u from differnt angls.


On Thu, Mar 8, 2012 at 12:09 AM, bc110200682 Nadeem Ul Hassan <bc110200682@vu.edu.pk> wrote:
This list has been compiled after research and is not intended to offend or insult anyone. After reading them it is possible to reach ones own conclusions.

1. Friends will reject me: The people I hang around with and really tight with none of them wear hijab/jilbaab and they take the mickey out of those that do. Especially the hijabies who check out boys and do dirty dancing at college.uni parties. Names like fundies, molvies, hypocrites and they cover cause they are ugly. If I wear the hijab then I will lose all my friends and have the piss taken out of me as well.

2. Harm my career: I worked my arse of to get where I am now in my career. I got a big salary, status and I enjoy the respect I get from colleagues and community. I can't risk all that for a piece of cloth, besides I would look weird in board meetings and work parties in the pub and nightclubs. InshAllah when I get married in my 30s and have kids in my mid 30s, I'll cover as I'm supposed to then.

3. My family are westernised: No one in my family wears hijab, even my grandmother wears bright coloured stylish clothes. If I were to wear the hijab I'd feel strange cause we have family gatherings where all the women dress in sarees and other revealing clothes and at our weddings we have a DJ playing bhangra music and we all dance to bollywood tunes, even my grandmother does a few funky moves on the dance  floor.

4. Non-Muslims will stare: I've noticed since 9/11 that non-Muslims regard anyone who looks like a Muslim as a potential terrorist and by wearing the hijab I would attract attention. By wearing western clothes I get away with non-Muslims thinking I'm a Hindu, Sikh or moderate non-practicing Muslim. I've even had white guys trying to chat me up cause they think I'm up for it based on the tight western clothing that I wear.
 
5. I'm still young: I'm only 27 I've got my whole life ahead of me. I'm still enjoying life, you know what I mean, flirting with guys,clubbing, hanging out with mates in shopping centres. When I get married and have kids I'll wear it then

6. I wont get attention from guys: I love the attention I get from guys and the way they look at me you know what I mean. I'm checking out 3 guys at the moment. Ones my age, ones older and one is older and married. I guess we all need a toy boy as well as a father figure /sugar daddy. I'll choose one of them, although I've got a few my age from uni as back up. After I've lived my life to the max and played the field and settled down then I might consider wearing it, even cover my face cause I don't wanna meet any of my ex's now do I? Shoot 2 birds with 1 stone, appear pious and avoid hassle with former boyfriends , great idea, hijab. Jilbab and niqab.

7. I dress modestly: I wear loose modest clothes which cover and hide my curves, I know my hair is exposed but at least I'm more or less covered, better than a lot of girls/women who dress like tarts.

8. People will think I'm a fundamentalist: There is so much in the media nowadays about Muslims getting radicalised and rejecting western values and becoming fundamentalists. I just don't want people to think that I am one also. Although I know that the west and its values are decadent and filthy, I don't think it's wise to express this. I pray and fast etc, I don't need to wear Islamic clothing to be a good Muslim coz Islam is in my heart.

9. I worked hard to get this figure: After going to the gym and Pilates fro 6 months I've finally achieved the hourglass figure which men find attractive. I enjoy the attention I get and feel attractive. By wearing the hijab/jilbaab I would just be an ordinary woman in the eyes of men and only religious types with big beards would be interested in me.

10. When in Rome do as the Romans: We live in the UK and not in a Muslim country so why follow Islam rigidly? Also compared to non-Muslim women who practically walk around naked I dress and behave quite respectably. Whenever I visit back home I wear different clothes cause I don't want people to think bad of me and my family. One day in my 60's after I have lived my life I will go to hajj and then become the perfect Muslimah, not now cause I believe "when in Rome do as the Romans".

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